Fatty Fatty Boom Boom by Rabia Chaudry (2022 Algonquin Books Kindle 352pp)
Rabia Chaudry is a Pakistani-American Lawyer, Podcaster and Author. She became well-known for her podcast “Serial” which investigated the failures of the US justice system in its dealings with one of her childhood friends. Not being a true crime fan that one passed me by but at some point I followed her on Twitter and subscribed to her podcast about the Djinn in Islamic culture. It was on Twitter that I first learnt about her memoir “Fatty Fatty Boom Boom”
This book is a most engaging and fascinating account of her life to date. It takes the story of her parents meeting and being wed to begin introducing us to the many layers of Pakistani life and culture.
When her father is recruited to become a vet in the USA the family makes the move overseas and its not long until culture shock sets in. We see what it was like for her family and those around them as they try to fit in whilst at the same time try to retain their culture and traditions.
Food and the wonderful description of foods play a large role in the story. We learn how many of the traditional Pakistani dishes fit in with various festivals and occasions, pay midnight visits to local street food vendors and generally drool over both Pakistani and western delicacies.
As a small child Rabia is fed heartily and soon she is growing in size and bulk compared to her family and friends. This becomes another theme of the book as we follow her struggles with body image, obesity and the cruelty of family and strangers toward her appearance.
The other main theme is family relationships and their ever-changing twists and turns. People are born, get married and die. Every time she returns to Pakistan for a visit her family has changed more and more but it’s the food and traditions that keep them tightly bound to each other.
She finds herself in an unhappy marriage and gives birth to a child. Its mainly unmentioned but it appears the husband in question is physically violent towards her and resents her studying towards a career.
Switching to study Law, she finds herself under increasing stress and struggles with multiple issues before finally finding happiness again in a new phase of life. The descriptions are honest and brave and you really feel for her during the dark times.
If I have any complaint its that the more recent events are compressed compared to her early life – after a certain point we race forward to the present day and the memoir comes to a halt. Following the main text is a selection of recipes for Pakistani dishes as she has learnt them from her family, probably not necessary but still interesting.
This is probably the first book I can remember reading that deals with Pakistan in its own right without connecting it to events in Afghanistan or terrorism etc. It also makes brief mention of the 1947 Partition of India something that seems to be bubbling up recently in books and popular culture in the west – perhaps we can now accept the trauma it caused.
This is a very worthwhile read that gives a window into not only another culture but also into the private struggles and obstacles in life that often go unsaid.